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40 Flirty Text Messages for Her

By on January 21, 2015

After texting a girl for a few days, you need to start stepping up your game. A text message from you doesn’t mean that she will know you are interested in her. To express you interest, you need to start sending flirty text messages for her. Ranging from romantic to sexy, these messages are intended to let her know that you want to be more than just friends.

1. Your mirror is way too lucky! Every time you look into it, it gets to look back at you!

If your girl is good-looking, let her know it. Hey, even the sexiest guys could be jealous of her mirror.

2. The hottest thing I could wear is the lipstick off off your lips!


This is unbelievably true. You might hate washing off the lipstick later on, but you will certainly enjoy it while it happens.

3. They say that a picture is worth a thousand words. They were wrong. Whenever I see your pictures, I just think “Wow”.

Out of all of the flirty text messages for her, this is one of my favorites. You spend time exchanging pictures or stalking her Facebook page: let her know you like the way she looks.

4. They say Disney world is the happiest place on earth! Obviously, they haven’t been in your arms.

Your flirty text messages can go beyond just expressing how attractive she is. Instead, you can hint at your feelings and romantic interest. After a night spent with her in your arms, send her a message that tells her that you enjoyed it.

5. I saw you for first time and I wondered why are your wings missing. Don’t all angels have wings?

Comparing her to an angel is one of the oldest tricks in the book when it comes to flirty text messages for her. Even if it may be one of the oldest types of compliments, it does not detract from its effectiveness.

6. Just got out of the shower… You should come over and help me get dirty again!

Some of these messages are just made for emoticons. For this flirty message, try adding a winking face. The moment she reads it, she will know exactly how dirty you plan on getting.

7. I really can’t wait until tomorrow… You keep getting more and more beautiful every single day!

This is a perfect message to send late at night. As she gets ready for bed, this message will make her smile and give her sweet dreams over the night.

8. Did the sun come out or did you just smile at me?

It may sound corny, but it works. In general, corny texts are more likely to make her smile. It also takes some of the seriousness off of the message. If you are not ready to tell her she is the most beautiful girl on earth, try sending a more fun, less serious text.

9. You’ve got such a pretty butt! It’s a pity that you have to sit on it!

When dealing with body parts, eyes, lips and skin are always safe things to compliment. If you are going to compliment her butt or other sexualized body parts, you should be wary. A dirty text could be a turn off for her, so exercise caution.

10. There’s news this morning that the police is looking for an escapee. The escapee has been described as sexy, beautiful, intelligent, funny and great in bed. You better come over and hide in my arms.

This message is a great flirty text message because it sounds serious. The fact that it switches to a pickup line is what makes this text so perfect for flirting.

11. You are so sweet that the candy store has a wanted poster with your name on it.

Here is another text message that has prisoner motifs in it. Instead of just telling her that she is sweet, use more imagery like this text.

12. The other day I was hanging around McDonalds and your thought crossed my mind. If you were a burger, they’d call you McGorgeous!

McGorgeous may sound corny, but it is an excellent way to mix it up. You cannot send serious, heart-warming texts all the time. Use messages like this to show her your fun side.

13. You better have a license because you are driving me crazy!

Crazy can be an understatement for new relationships. If you are short on time, this short text is an easy one to send off in an instant.

14. I think I should tell you what people are saying behind your back… Nice butt!

Again, you always have to be careful about how you compliment her body. With a message like this, you are able to express your appreciation for certain…elements…of her body without offending her.

15. Are you lost? Heaven’s a long way from where you are right now!

It may be another reference to the angels, but it still works. You can also use this as an in-person pickup line. Try asking a girl at the bar if she is lost and wait for her smile. Pickup lines do not have to be brilliant to work. In general, you are more likely to get the girl if you can make her smile.

16. You should wearing makeup because it’s messing with your perfection!

Girls are always worried about how they look. This message lets her know that she can relax because she is already perfect in your eyes.

17. People around me must think that I’m really drunk right now because I am so intoxicated by you.

For a wakeup text or a good night message, this text is perfect.

18. Congratulations! You have won the vote for being the most beautiful girl in the world. The Grand Prize is a romantic evening with me!

If you have been searching for the perfect way to ask her out, then this is the message for you.

19. I’ve found a new way to bake cookies without an oven this morning! All I need I is for you to look at them because you’re so hot!

It may be corny, but this flirty text message for her is effective.

20. There’s a can of whipped cream waiting for you by my bed.

Before she gets home, send her this message so that she is prepared. A winking emoticon is the perfect thing to add for this to be the sexiest text message ever.

21. There must be a switch on my forehead because every time I see you, you turn me on!

She will groan when she reads this, but it will still make her smile. Even when the message is corny, she will love knowing that you find her alluring.

22. You’re lucky they don’t arrest you for being that cute!

For the best flirty text messages, you do not have to be a poet. Some of the simplest messages work the best.

23. You should send me a picture so that I can show Santa what I want for Christmas.

If Christmas is just around the corner, you should tell her what you expect to find under the tree.

24. From A to Z, the only thing that matters is the space between U and I.

Another modification of this text message is the classic: Let’s change the alphabet to bring U and I together.

25. You’re legs must be tired…because you’ve been running through my mind all night.

It may be an old pickup line, but it will work in a pinch. If you have tried anything else, you can always send her this message.

26. They should arrest you for being that gorgeous.

The quickest way to a woman’s heart is through flattery. Try it—you’ll see.

27. You are so beautiful that you made me forget the pickup line I was going to use.

Tongue-tied? This flirty text message for her is the perfect solution.

28. Are you a surgeon? Because you just took my heart away.

This works as both a flirty text and a cute pickup line.

29. You remind me a lot of my next girlfriend.

Of course, this message only works if you have not officially become a couple yet. If you are already a couple, she may imagine that you are looking for someone else!

30. I learned something today: Not every angel has wings.

Send this message to let her know that she will always be your angel.

31. Other than being gorgeous, what do you do for a living?

Another excellent question to ask when you first approach a girl.

32. I think I need an eye doctor because I can’t take my eyes off of you.

Or you need to visit a doctor because she has your heart beating like crazy.

33. If a man in a red suit jumps out of the chimney and grabs you, don’t be worried. I asked Santa for you this year.

At first, this message will alarm her. By the end of it, she will be smiling.

34. I hope that you know CPR because you just took my breath away.

If she has your heart beating like wild, let her know.

35. If love is a crime, I better be locked up.

As your relationship heats up, you can start adding more emotion to your messages.

36. God must have been showing off on the day he made you.

If you are looking for flirty text messages for her, this is one of the most beautiful.

37. I think I need directions because I’m lost in your eyes.

Perhaps she will give you a map!

38. I never believed that angels were real until I met you, baby.

Be careful when using pet names. Some women hate being called things like babe or baby.

39. It must have rained when you were born because the heavens cried when they lost their favorite angel.

This flirty text message for her manages to be both descriptive and poetic.

40. Do you believe in love at first sight or should I look your way again?

Use this classic message if you want to catch her attention.


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    June 12, 2018 at 10:11 am

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  3. Ronald

    September 29, 2018 at 7:15 pm

    Really sweet. Great work done!

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